Posts Tagged ‘self control’

Arguing the Road to Ruin

Posted 25 Oct 2011 — by KevinS
Category 2 Timothy

Spear 3819 Arguing the Road to Ruin cartoon

Cartoon of  two fighting men. They have numerous speach balloons between them. The illustration is based on 2 Timothy 2:14.

“Keep reminding God’s people of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen.”

As a guy, I have a problem. I like to argue once in a while. It may be because I disagree with someone. Or it could be just because I like to ruffle someone’s feathers. It’s especially tempting to do when I know someone has strong opinions and has a temper.

The verse reminded me that arguing does have consequences. Words can not only hurt, but ruin someone. The next time I’m tempted to argue, I need to remind myself how little value this activity brings.